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Tips For Men Dating Older Women

Posted by: | Posted on: May 28, 2016
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unduhan (91)Men prefer dating older women for a number of reasons. One of the major reasons is that older women are generally more mature and save men from lots of trouble compared to when dating women their age or younger. Older women dating younger men also have their reasons for choosing them with the fact that they are fun and full of energy being among the major reasons for the women. But in as much as it might seem easy for a man to date an older woman, this kind of dating needs to be approached carefully for good dating results to be enjoyed. If you are a man planning or looking to date and the older woman, then the tips below should help you be successful in doing so.

1. Never assume that she is desperate and innocent

She may be older, but this does not in any way mean that she is desperate and will be under your control. In fact, some older women can be vicious and manage to have a number of relationships going; you need to prove your worth to make


How To Go About Dating Over 50

Posted by: | Posted on: May 24, 2016
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unduhan (90)If you are over 50 and single, then it is most likely that you have been separated, divorced or widowed. The good news even when you are over 50 is that you still have your life ahead of you and dating is among the things that can excite and brighten your life again. Unfortunately, not all over 50 are as confident about dating again and some choose to remain single for the rest of their lives. If you are among those that still value a good relationship, then you should be prepared to go back to dating. It might mean overcoming a few challenges but when you put your heart into it, then you are bound to be a success. Below are a few steps you can use to start dating again and be a success while at it.

Decide that you are ready to date again

Have you forgotten about your ex and any past occurrences that might not be pleasant? You are as prepared to date again as you have gotten over your past. Never make the mistake of thinking that a new


Steps To Make Your Over 50 Dating Awesome

Posted by: | Posted on: May 11, 2016
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unduhan (89)Online dating sites have made it so much easier for seniors to date again. You can easily use such platforms to find potential partners you have things in common. There are so many singles out there and you need to be wise when making your decision so that you end up with the right person and in the right relationship. But even if your first trial to over 50 dating fails, you should try again until you find someone that makes you happier in more ways than one.

Step 1 Lay out your expectations

Knowing what you are looking for is very important before you even start looking for the right man or woman. As a woman over 50, a relationship that ends in marriage can be thrilling to think about, but you should remember that age might not allow you to have any children of the union. Luckily, when dating someone your age, you both probably have grown children and making babies may not be on top of your list. Just understand why you are getting into the relationship so you are able to


The Good And The Bad

Posted by: | Posted on: May 26, 2016
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There is really no age limit when it comes to dating. Men are especially advantaged because they remain active most of their lives hence they tend to be ready and willing to date again even at over 60. Dating over 60 might not seem much of a challenge for many men, but whereas it does have a good side, there is also a bad side to think about. When you know what to expect both on the negative and positive, you will be better prepared to handle the relationship.

The good

One good thing about a man who is over 60 is that he is principled and more stable in every aspect of life. This means that he is not too worried about failed relationships and can handle practically any breakup easily. It makes it possible for such a man to keep trying until he meets a good woman he can work out a relationship with.

Men over 60 are usually financially stable. They have toiled in younger ages and they are now enjoying the fruits of their labor in retirement possibly. This means that such a man will not spend a sleepless night worrying about how much a date will cost when


Five Questions You Should Answer Before Buying Flowers For A Guy

Posted by: | Posted on: April 28, 2016
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You have been eyeing him for as long as you can remember and daydreaming of the time that he will finally talk to you. You are so deep into the crushed whole that you decided to take the matter into your own hands. As a very a girl very sure of herself, you decided you give him flowers.

But, courage is not enough. Skill is also necessary for coming up with the best gift. Let me help you with these questions, you need to answer before getting him blooms.

1 Where can I get the flowers?

You may have an inkling of where you can find blooms– like the local market. But, you want to have access to the greatest deals, right? You should have a few flower shops in mind before you head out. This will help save time and effort. Instead of wasting your time strolling and finding, create a list of florists who can offer you the best. Ask those shopping-addict friends to go out with you to get their best advice.

2 What is the occasion?

Before you get your hands on the pretty blooms, you need to ask yourself why you are giving him blossoms. Perhaps it is his a


5 Things Girls Wish To Receive From A Guy

Posted by: | Posted on: April 26, 2016
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Not all girls are vocal on the things they want. Ladies are also quite confusing since they are fond of a lot of things. Furthermore, it even gets complicated when the guy is oblivious to what she fancies. There are special days in your relationship that you simply want to make her feel special. Admit it or not, you are here because you absolutely have no idea what to give her.

Don’t worry, we are here to make your life easier. Here is the list of solutions to your problem:

1. Flowers

It has long been a tradition to give flowers to a woman. But it’s not just tradition that dictates why girls love them so much. They reflect who they are. Flowers wilt and die but their beauty is ethereal. You can get these fascinating blooms from the nearest flower shop within your vicinity or you can easily order a bouquet of flowers online and send it to her as soon as possible! Do make sure that the bouquet you’ve chosen matches her personality. It makes her feel cherished knowing that you took the time to regard her in your decision.

2. Hand-made letters

It’s the most romantic gesture a guy could do for


Do You Know What Controls You and Kills Your Relationship

Posted by: | Posted on: April 8, 2016
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SHE

* Friends told her, repeatedly, that she shouldn’t even try to develop a relationship with someone she meets at her work – place.

*She felt alone and lonely, insecure in initiating anything with anyone, always hoping that “the day will come and someone will ask me out”.

*Yet she found comfort and peace reading books, going to museums (alone!) and paint a little when the muse presented herself.

* Research shows that many love-affairs happen in the work-place.

“Falling in live”

… and then one day, unexpectedly, she sat in the cafeteria across from someone she has seen a few times in the corridors, but has never spoken with until now.

“You have beautiful eyes,” he said, as if out of the blue.

She blushed, didn’t know how to respond.

… and then, somehow, they began a conversation.

… and then, somehow, they began dating.

… and then, somehow, he told her he has just left his wife.

… and then, as if by passing, he suggested they move in together. Meaning, “is it possible for him to move in with her?”

She blushed, didn’t know how to respond, feeling somewhat awkward having him move in with her so quickly – God, she barely knows him! – yet afraid to say “no“.

So


Tips For Dating A Cougar

Posted by: | Posted on: April 3, 2016
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The term, “cougar” is used to define a woman who is above 35 years old and interested to date men who are younger than her. Cougars are strong and confident women who know exactly what they want in a relationship. If you want to date a cougar, the following tips will help you to a great extent. Though you may be a young man, you need to display some maturity around a cougar to win her attention and get the relationship going.

1. Attention to physical appearance

One of the qualities of a cougar is that she loves extremely good looking younger men. She chooses her men carefully. So, if you have to win her attention and start dating her, you have to be impeccably dressed. You should dress appropriately and have a trimmed hairstyle so that you look neat and presentable always. Wearing a branded perfume is a must as a cougar loves classy scents.

2. No mention about age

While the cougar is quite independent and straightforward, she doesn’t like to be reminded of her age too often, just like any other woman. So, if you are dating a cougar, remember this always. Never utter statements that define her age or kids


Do Some People Get Back With Their Ex In Order To Avoid How They Feel

Posted by: | Posted on: March 27, 2016
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When a relationship comes to an end, one can experience a sense of relief, and this can mean that they won’t feel the need to get back together with the person they were with. Even so, this doesn’t mean that the other person is having the same experience.

As a result, they can try and revive the relationship, and one could start to wonder when they are going to move on. One could feel as though they have outgrown each other, and there will then be no reason for them to get back together.

Abuse

If this isn’t the case, there is the chance that the relationship was abusive, and then this will show that one is doing the right thing. The person they have left is not going to be healthy and it will be in their best interest to keep them out of their life.

Through spending time with them, they will know how destructive they are. What this will show is that one is no longer willing to tolerate their bad behaviour, and that they have changed.

The Other Person

If person they were with does try to revive the relationship, they could remind them of all the good times that they


Stuck in an Unsatisfying Relationship? Want to Know What to Do About It? How to Find True Intimacy?

Posted by: | Posted on: March 26, 2016
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Many “fall asleep” in their relationship: they feel bored, unexciting “doing” their life on automatic pilot, every day the same routine, unsatisfied, at times feeling humiliated, disillusioned, forgetting that there “once” was love between them and their partner; that there “once” was sex, and happiness.

Why does it happen that the relationship deteriorates?

There are many reasons for this situation to develop:

  • You grow apart from one another;
  • You were never “meant” to be together, but somehow began a relationship, out of fear of being alone, out of initial attraction, etc.
  • You come from different backgrounds and cultural milieu, initially ignoring this fact, but slowly realizing your worlds are light-years apart from each other;
  • One of you devotes all available time to working (whether outside of the home or in home), thus doesn’t allow any time for intimacy;
  • And so on and so forth…

Regardless of the reason your relationship deteriorates, what is important is that you decide what you want to do about it. Many just go on with their life “as if” nothing happened; “as if” everything is o.k.; “as if” they don’t actually see and feel any difference, justifying these to themselves by saying that “relationships always change over time”; that “well, we have become


How Getting Close to People Forces Us To Grow

Posted by: | Posted on: March 12, 2016
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PAULINE and Geraldine met at church one day. They seemed immediately to have much in common. Both had a baby and another child each under six. And their respective husbands, Brice and Doug, seemed to get along together as well. Both families spent much time together over the ensuing five years, at church, in each other’s homes, serving others for Christ together, and serving and loving each other. Both couples were active in their serving within their church, much to the extent that between the four of them they were nearly three fulltime equivalent pastoral roles (senior leaders) on the church staff. Each couple was not only an ideal complement for each other, but both couples were an ideal complement for their church. Everything worked so well. And, best of all, the church was growing in reach into the community, and in spiritual depth.

But then something happened, which happens in a lot of relationships. A misunderstanding occurred, a theme of poor communication developed, and the relationship disintegrated.

Geraldine and Doug experienced a sudden loss within their family, and they found what they deemed to be no solace from Pauline and Brice. For Geraldine and Doug, it seemed that for Pauline and


Are Friends The People That We Have In Our Life Who Undermine Us

Posted by: | Posted on: February 27, 2016
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While one can share their life with people who support them, they can also be in a different position. As a result of this, the people they are closest to could be the ones who hold them back.

The Ideal

When one has people around them are able to support them, their life is going to be far more fulfilling. There is a strong chance that they will feel good when they are in their presence, and it could make it easier for them to move forward in life.

And as they act in a supportive manner towards them, there might be no reason for them to hold anything back. Or if they do, it could be something that rarely takes place, and this is going to allow them to have a strong connection with these people.

A Richer Life

There will then be how they feel when they spend time with them, and the effect these people have on their life in general. It could be said that their life wouldn’t be the same without these people.

Now, this is not to say that they are ‘dependent’ on them; what it comes down to is that human beings are interdependent. Thus, while one could


How to Move On When You’re Hurt

Posted by: | Posted on: February 26, 2016
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Have you ever been hurt? Have you ever waited for an apology that never came? Have you ever felt that someone needed to say “sorry” to you but they didn’t do it? Let’s say a friend throws a party without inviting you, or a co-worker misses a deadline that’s crucial for your favorite project or your partner / spouse really hurts you. You may be gracious enough to forgive if you receive a sincere apology, but what happens if the other person refuses to say the words you long to hear?

Author Robert Brault says, “Life becomes easier when you learn to accept an apology you never got.” Now, it sounds like an awesome idea doesn’t it? But the question is how to make the first move?

One of the things that has personally helped me a lot in situations like this is to always remind myself that the advantages of forgiveness are the same whether the other person apologizes or not. Think of pardoning others as something you do for yourself rather than for them.

1. Drop the resentment – “Resentment is like drinking poison and then hoping it will kill your enemies.” – Nelson Mandela. Grudges are like a heavy weight


IWhy Do Some People Open Up To People Who Will Shame Them

Posted by: | Posted on: February 21, 2016
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While someone can be in a position where they are around people who they can open up to, there is also the chance that this is not the case. When one can relate to the former, it could be how their life has been for as long as they can remember.

Having said that, there is also the chance that their life hasn’t always been this way, and one could then find it easy to get into touch with when their life used to be different. As a result of this, one will know what it is like to be on the other side, so to speak.

Appreciation

If they were to do this, they may start to experience a sense of gratitude, and it could be said that this is to be expected. For one thing, their life is likely to be far more fulfilling than it was before.

Yet when one doesn’t experience life in this way, they are unlikely to know what it would be like to experience life differently. In fact, they could believe that this is the only option they have, and that their life will always be the same.

Disconnected

Through being around people who they can’t open up to,


Is It A Form Of Indirect Revenge When Someone Always Criticises Others

Posted by: | Posted on: February 3, 2016
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If someone was to think about what their friends are like, they may start to think about how supportive they are. These are then going to be the kind of people who are life-affirming, and it could then be said that that they have the right people in their life.

Two Experiences

On one hand, they may have experienced life like this for as long as they can remember, and on the other hand, this might not be the case. If they can relate to the former, then one may simply take it for granted.

Where if they have experience life differently, they might be only too aware of how fortunate they are. This is not to say that they just woke up one day and their life had changed, as there is the chance that they had to put a lot of work in.

Another Outlook

Having said that, even if one has more or less always experienced life in this way, it doesn’t mean that they don’t feel grateful for how their life is. They could spend a lot of time thinking about this, and they could also let the people around them know how they feel on a regular basis.

Along with


Everything in the Law Code Sums Up to Love

Posted by: | Posted on: January 27, 2016
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Death and destruction are on rampage, from town to town, city to city and from country to country. Switch on to any news channel, you are informed of one chaos or another; one tragedy or another. People gather face to face, on social media or phone calls discussing:

“What is going on? Death is on the loose like never before”

“Yes, he has more recruits these days.”

“What do you mean?”

“Death is a spirit and can only cause havoc through agents?”

“Through agents?”

“Oh yes, he possesses those who invite him. Don’t invite him and he will not use you.”

“Are you saying those he is using invited him?”

“Yes, they invited him by cultivating his receptors”

“Receptors? Can you please use layman’s words?”

“Death uses people who have hatred in them. The hatred in them encourages death to make a proposal to them. So because they already have hatred in them, they are quick to accept his proposal and jump at executing his assignments.”

“So you are saying death possesses one who is already possessed by hatred.”

“Yes.”

“It means that hatred is also a spirit”

“Exactly! You are a smart guy.”

“So if death is invited by the presence of hatred, what is in a person that invites hatred?”

“Intolerance. Some of us


Has Humaneness Walked Out on Us?

Posted by: | Posted on: January 22, 2016
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The news have been coming in for years in trickles, now and then. Suddenly, it is campaigning to be a daily occurrence. Shooting here, shooting there; bomb here, bomb there, kidnapping here, kidnapping there; slaving in one form, slaving in another form; abuse in this dimension and abuse in another dimension. When did life become valueless?

It is everywhere, Syria, United States America, United Kingdom, Nigeria, Iraq, Pakistan, Afghanistan, Egypt, Somalia, Kenya, Israel, Turkey, France and on and on. Some humans dare to take the lives of fellow humans. Some humans dare to maim fellow humans. Some humans dare to abuse fellow humans physically, mentally, emotionally, financially and psychologically. They do to fellow humans what they would not want to be done to them. One wonders how and when an abuser over time allowed his mind to become corrupt against fellow humans. How and when did the world get to this point? How and when did some humans stop being humane.

A human is said to be humane if the human displays tenderness, compassion and sympathy for fellow humans. It is evident from the events and incidences around us that one can be human and not be humane.

How and when did some


Can We Get People To Open Up By Criticising Them

Posted by: | Posted on: January 11, 2016
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When it comes to the kinds of relationships that one has with others, they could find that they experience intimacy with some of the people they know. As a result of this, their life is not going to be full of surface level connections.

This could then mean that one has partner/lover and a number of friends who they share a deeper connection with. At the same time, they this could be a time in their life when they are not with anyone.

The Benefit

What this will then mean is that one’s life is going to be far more fulfilling that it would be if they only had one person to share it with. It is then not going to be as important for them to be with someone, and this is because they can share who they are with other people in their life.

During the moments when they are in their company, they could open about how they have been feeling and the direction their life is taking, among other things. This is also likely to be something that the other person does.

Empathy

And as this takes place, it is going to show that the people they spend time with have


The Difference Makes You Happy or Tormented

Posted by: | Posted on: January 11, 2016
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Often in a relationship it happens that at least one of the partners is not true to himself/herself. This happens for a variety of reasons:

HE, for example, wants to separate but is afraid to be alone; he wants to confess about an affair but is afraid of the results; he feels more responsibility to his grown-up children than to his new partner, but doesn’t have the courage to admit it to her; and so on and so forth.

She, on the other hand, hates the way he makes love to her but isn’t assertive enough to bring it up in the open; is tired about asking him to a help her around the house, but doesn’t want to confront him about it, afraid he might feel she doesn’t regard him as “a man”; she feels frustrated about him not inviting her out to restaurants as often as she would have loved to, but hesitates to bring the issue up, fearing he might get angry, and so on and so forth.

Two people in a relationship, none of them true to himself/herself

So here there are two people, in a relationship, none of whom is true to himself/herself, none of whom has the courage


Diagnosed or Undiagnosed Personality Disorder Might Harm Your Relationship

Posted by: | Posted on: January 2, 2016
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The “young” and the restless

One of the most celebrated authors, Irene Nemirovsky (which, unfortunately, many haven’t heard of), is known to have had antagonistic relationship with her own mother, who dressed her daughter – Irene – in children’s clothing when she was well into her teens, in order to give the impression that she herself – the mother – was still young, beautiful and seductive.

As much as this might sound weird, maybe even somewhat sick, there are those who, regardless of their age, dress themselves in “younger” outfits, undergo face-lifting operations and post a younger photo of themselves on Facebook, all of it with the intention to feel young(er) and attractive, hoping to still be adored, courted and dated for the way they look.

Fear of dying, of getting old and being alone

The fear of dying, of getting old and of being alone seems to never been so acknowledged and feared as in today’s world and times. Whether due to longevity, to an uncertain world, to a youth-culture which is becoming more and more dominant, there are more and more people who do whatever they can (and whatever sum of money they can spend on it) to camouflage them becoming old(er).

They